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This One Looks Like a Boy

My Gender Journey to Life as a Man

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Inspiring and honest, this unique memoir of gender transition and coming-of-age proves it's never too late to find your true identity.

Since he was a small child, Lorimer Shenher knew something for certain: he was a boy. The problem was, he was growing up in a girl's body.

In this candid and thoughtful memoir, Shenher shares the story of his gender journey, from childhood gender dysphoria to teenage sexual experimentation to early-adult denial of his identity—and finally the acceptance that he is trans, culminating in gender reassignment surgery in his fifties. Along the way, he details his childhood in booming Calgary, his struggles with alcohol, and his eventual move to Vancouver, where he became the first detective assigned to the case of serial killer Robert Pickton (the subject of his critically acclaimed book That Lonely Section of Hell). With warmth and openness, This One Looks Like A Boy takes us through one of the most important decisions Shenher will ever make, as he comes into his own and finally discovers acceptance and relief.

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    • Publisher's Weekly

      April 1, 2019
      Shenher (That Lonely Section of Hell), a former Vancouver Police Department detective, relays the journey that led to his decision in his 50s to transition from female to male. For as long as he can remember, Shenher writes, he knew he was born in the wrong body. For much of his adult life, he painfully resisted doing anything about it, an experience his therapist likened to “sitting on a pin.” The story follows him from his early childhood in Calgary through various milestones of womanhood (developing breasts, having a first sexual experience with a boy, coming out as a lesbian, giving birth to the second of his three children) that Shenher found traumatic. Other narrative threads follow his lifelong love of basketball, the circuitous evolution of his working life leading to the VPD and his first book (about serial killer Robert Pickton), and his relationship with his father. Dialogue is used in some banal moments, such as buying a hamburger, but big moments—coming out as transgender for the first time, or telling his wife he’s finally decided to transition—are summarized rather than given fully realized scenes. Shenher’s play-by-play style works best when he seriously decides to investigate transitioning; the process of gender affirmation is laid out clearly and succinctly. This is a straightforward account of one person’s experience, not a complex exploration of broader phenomena, but it has insight to offer readers, especially ones traveling a similar path.

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